Great to be Here!

Hey everyone! I just wanted to say a word of greetings to get this project underway. I hope each and everyone of you enjoy and get something new and important to you out of this blog. It is a huge step for me as i was raised Roman Catholic and in a very conservative Midwestern  culture and I am looking forward to some great discussions about intimacy between consenting adults and all aspects of sexuality. Let me begin by saying, I am by no means a sex god... I have had the wonderfully good fortune of being with some girls and women over the years who have had a great sense of openness toward  the adventurous side of their sexuality. I eventually ended up with a wonderful woman who I have been with for 13+ years and our sex life has continued to evolve and become more satisfying as time passes. This is an amazing feat for pretty much any married couple but it becomes even more amazing when you take into account the fact that my wife was a victim of sexual abuse as a child by her adoptive father and a victim of rape in her teenage years. Through constant communication, openness and acceptance of each others feelings, thoughts and ideas and trust building we have been able to play at all kinds of new sexual experiences including, Role play, oral sex, experimentation with positions, toy play, B&D and we keep learning and trying new experiences. It took time to create this wonderful and exciting sex life and at times it seemed like we were going backwards and I had to plead my case like a desperate trial lawyer, but eventually the excitement and bond that we have created over the years won out and new avenues of pleasure continue to be opened up to us.

I have two reasons for starting this blog and I will be straight up honest with you about them. The first: I am working on quiting my day job and working from home. I have several websites, one of which is an online adult toy and lingerie store www.sexyintimatetoys.com  This blog is one of the ways I will be promoting the store and from time to time I will promote featured items from the store here but only if It's appropriated to the subject at hand. the second reason for this blog is, my wife and I have joked for years that we should council other couples especially couples who have one or both partners who have been victims of sexual abuse and are struggling to find joy and pleasure in their own sexuality. last year i decided to become a lifecoach and now it doesn't seem like such a crazy idea after all. So Welcome and lets talk about sex!